“Wherefore, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath” (James 1:19).
If we would all apply today’s verse, this would be amazing. Think how many conflicts we could resolve. The phrase “slow to speak” seems to indicate a chance to think about what we have just heard. Also it gives us a chance to pray before we act. Many times we fail to process what we hear. This usually leads to anger. We don’t usually slow down and count to 10 before acting or reacting. If we don’t control the anger, it will control us. Then our muscles will tighten and our lips will become loose.
It’s wonderful when we can sit down and dialogue with other believers who can discern when to talk and when to listen. When we don’t know how to put something into words verbally, we can put those words into a letter. Yes, a letter. Not an e-mail, not a Facebook post, not a text or a Tweet, but a hand written note or letter. However, nothing will replace being able to sit down and talk face to face.
Let’s weigh our words before speaking them, lest they lead to conflict. By speaking words of encouragement and taking time to patiently listen, we avert having to do damage control.
Sue Winchester
Missouri
PRAY TOGETHER: Pray for creative access teachers who have completed their calendar school years and will soon be returning to the states for summer break.
