“I beseech Euodias, and beseech Syntyche, that they be of the same mind in the Lord. And I entreat thee also, true yokefellow, help those women which laboured with me in the gospel with Clement also, and with other my fellowlabourers, whose names are in the book of life” (Philippians 4:2-3).
Today’s verses deal with two Christian women in conflict. According to various commentaries, both Euodias and Syntyche were energetic in the work of the Lord. However, they had some non-doctrinal issues that had gone on for some time. Paul didn’t take sides but admonished those in the church to help these women resolve their conflict. Since Paul couldn’t always be there to minister to every need of the church, it was good he had brethren to help him. He had men like Syzygus (in some translations) and Clement he considered “yokefellows” and “fellowlabourers.” He turned to these men, asking them to help Euodias and Syntyche settle their differences once and for all. Often times it takes someone to act as an intermediary to help two parties resolve matters.
Sadly, when both parties feel they are right and refuse to budge, this can cause a ripple effect in the church. It takes the willingness of one of the two (along with prayer and confrontation) to initiate a reconciliation. Maybe the confrontation factor is why some conflicts lasts so long. Sitting face to face to work things out is needful, but often difficult.
One 70s movie ended with this line: “Love is never having to say you’re sorry.” I beg to differ. Even in the best of relationships, you will have your share of differences. Avoiding apologies will only keep the conflict brewing. Conflicts will never be resolved unless someone steps up and asks forgiveness.
Sue Winchester
Missouri
PRAY TOGETHER: Pray for home missionaries Heath and Amanda Webb as they labor to plant a church in Boise, Idaho.
